Would be interested in disagreement, fwiw here are my misc. thoughts on the forum and my experience with it:
Now that I think about it, I've never seen Banksy and 80,000 Hours podcast host Zershaaneh Qureshi in the same room.....
FWIW, the current CEO didn't join until Feb 2024 and the new growth strategy didn't come until maybe 6–12 months after. I think the effects of CEA's current approach wouldn't be captured in data until later. Although, this is still useful for showing that there isn't already a significant satisfaction trend that's been recorded.
I appreciate this and I think it's good to just be able to say "I find it hard to engage with your messages," so in that spirit I will try to keep this one short, I know I tend to write a lot:
Nathan, I genuinely think this is more emotional for you than it is for me. Yes, sexual harassment is a personal topic for me, but it's also one I've thought about a lot on an intellectual level. And further, I have no emotional commitment to the question of whether EA is better, the same, or worse. I've previously written that I guess it's probably about the same as comparable communities.
It is definitely true we have had several interpersonal interactions over the years and we don't get on, but the epistemic feedback that I wrote, I meant sincerely and without prejudice. It has several agree votes. I recommend you try reading it again and really consider it, if you'd like to. As a nudge, my feedback was not "you didn't respond to each one of my points." Of course, you also don't have to read it! I'm sure I am more glib and frustrated in my tone when I talk with you, so I don't mean to suggest that our personal frustrations don't come through at all on my end. And as others have pointed out, if the original post contained a better analysis and a more genuinely curious tone, I think this whole post would've gone over differently. I genuinely think I could write a post: "how do rates of sexual harassment in EA compare to other communities?" and it would be very well written and it would probably go over great, I'm sure I'd get some pushback but I wouldn't mind. But I mean it sincerely when I say, I don't find this question particularly important so this isn't something I would personally bother writing. I'm sure someone else could also do a great job, or CH could write this very well, but it's a matter of finding someone who can write these kinds of things well, has the motivation, and the time for it.
Hi Caleb! :)
"My impression is that, if asked, many people would say that EA is significantly worse than other spaces."
I found this useful! It's good to know what others are seeing & hearing. FWIW, my personal experience with this is something vague, like:
"Re "why do we even care about a baseline?" Ime, when harassment gets brought up (e.g. on the forum), people say that there were basic/common/cheap/expected mitigations that would have prevented the incident."
My hot take is that, a lot of the people who suggest this don't have a super developed understanding of sexual harassment, or they don't have much real-world experience, or they're quite young. I personally don't think there is some quick fix. Partly because EA has unique features that drive its gendered-issues. Unfortunately, this is actually a more doomy view than the idea that there are quick fixes, because it further supports that women who find the community difficult to tolerate/navigate should just leave.
Over the past couple months, I've intentionally began to try and distance myself from EA and been much happier for it (I don't do in-person meetup type stuff much anymore, am trying to do less "directly EA" online stuff, and I don't know if I'd ever consider doing meta-EA work again). I guess you could say that I'm implying EA is worse than comparable communities, but I don't mean it that way. It's just like, these days I do my job and hang out with my friends/family, and I only check the forum if I get an email notification that my post has been mentioned because I forgot to turn off email notifications for mentions :')
So I guess that's where I'm coming from when I say that I personally don't care much for this comparison. I feel like I have enough personal, direct, and specific data to conclude something is going wrong and something isn't meeting my standards. I'm realising that's a way in which I'm ill-placed for this discussion. If I didn't have a pretty thorough view formed over years, base rate might also be the first thing I want to understand. I guess I'm just personally well past that, but I've updated that this specific idea is worth discussing on the forum. I'm sceptical it will ever be done well, but alas.
I've noticed a pattern of a particular rhetorical move you tend to use, whereby you sidestep engaging meaningfully with people's points and instead continue to ask pointed questions. With these questions, it's relatively clear that you have one answer you agree with and expect back. If you don't get that answer, you tend to simply continue posing further questions, sidestepping other points, and pushing in the direction of a specific answer. If this method eventually produces an answer you're looking for, or something close, I then see: "great, now that we've established [narrow thing of x] to be true through my questioning, we can conclude [original claim I've been trying to prove all along]." Sometimes, I've noticed you'll do this even if the person hasn't exactly agreed with narrow thing of x. I think this is unproductive and poor epistemics.
Sounds awesome! :D